Have you ever wish that your best friend become your girlfriend?,careful with the step a head you may end up loosing a best friend.
If you continued with this reading means that you want to know what to do, This is my very personal experience could be different in you so I just leave you some advice.
- Are you sure you want to hear the truth? This may hurt because the other person may not feel like you, and because she is your best friend she could say things you do not like.
- Think long and hard about what you say, although it’s always good to use a tone calm and casual, it is always best to treat the issue as if it was not a big deal, something like “Maybe I may sound strange, but do you see me as more than a friend?”
- Face to face. Please do not talk to her about your feelings by phone, instant message or email, this should deal face to face.
- Do not panic. If the answer is not, do not press questions like “Why not? If we get along so well “just smiles and continues talking, remember that the most important to save after that is friendship. At the end you have two ways, the first thing she accepts your proposal (follow with some fireworks), and the second is the case she has to say, Thanks but no thanks, where you must try your best to safe the friendship taking this as an isolated incident that does not mean anything.
At the end remember that friendship is more valuable than the best of relations.
